One question a day, answered in your own moment and revealed together — a quiet, faith-rooted ritual that turns busy marriages back toward each other, and toward God. Churches can offer it to every couple in their congregation.
Couples rarely lack love — they lack time, attention, and a protected space to truly hear each other. We believe technology should serve a marriage, not compete with it.
OurVow is that space: a daily ritual rooted in Christian faith, where one question draws out two honest answers and opens them together. Simple enough to keep, deep enough to matter — a quiet tending of the covenant you made, between Sundays.
Three convictions guide every decision we make.
Every question is written to draw you closer to each other and to God, with Scripture at the heart of each day.
Your answers are encrypted and stay between you and your spouse. We never read them, and we never sell them.
A calm daily moment that belongs to the two of you, and fits the life you already have.
“Most of the couples I’ve seen drift apart never stopped loving each other. In the rush of life, they simply ran out of a place that belonged to just the two of them.
OurVow is that place. One heartfelt question a day — and a marriage that grows closer, deeper, and more rooted in Christ.
I am not a pastor, and I do not write the questions alone: pastors and Christian counselors read them and tell me where they land wrong. I build the room, and I care a great deal about what happens inside it.”
Josua, Founder
As a church leader, you’ll see how many couples have joined and how your cohort is growing together — the pulse of your congregation, and nothing more.
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OurVow is published by OURVOW PROJECT, a French simplified joint-stock company (SASU) registered in France, with its head office in Guadeloupe. We design intentional, privacy-first tools to help couples grow together in faith.
Detailed legal information is available in our legal notice.
What couples and church leaders ask us most.
OurVow is a daily space for married couples to stay close to God and to each other — a way to keep your marriage Christ-centered in the everyday, between Sundays. Each day brings one question and a short passage of Scripture — answered in your own moment, then shared together. A small, sacred rhythm woven into everyday life, a quiet tending of the covenant you made.
Each day opens with a new question. You each answer in your own quiet moment, and once you've both answered, your responses open together — yours and theirs, side by side, with a verse to sit with. In the evening, a short devotional is ready for the two of you to read and pray through together. It's a thread of small moments that keep you turned toward God and toward each other all day long.
Yes — that's exactly what OurVow is for. Each day hands you a place to begin: a question worth answering, a verse to sit with, a short prayer. You simply show up together, and the day gives you the words.
Completely normal — most couples feel it at first. OurVow eases it by starting small: one gentle question a day, in your own words. The awkwardness softens as the rhythm becomes yours.
That's exactly the gap OurVow fills. Left to the everyday, conversation drifts to logistics — the calendar, the errands, who's picking up whom. OurVow gently moves you from that small talk to soul talk: one question a day that's about the two of you, not the to-do list — what you're dreaming, what you're grateful for, how God is at work in you. A small daily door back to each other.
Yes. OurVow fits the day you already have — a quiet moment you can share from home, whenever the moment comes.
That's common — and OurVow is made to win them over gently. You can simply begin; your answer waits quietly until they add theirs, whenever they're ready. Most hesitant spouses come around the first time they open a reveal and read what the other wrote — the honesty, and the small daily pull toward each other, do the convincing that words never could.
Yes. OurVow is for couples wherever they are — close and wanting to stay that way, or pulled apart by busyness and wanting to find each other again. It's the everyday tending that keeps a good marriage growing — closer to each other and to God — and a gentle way back toward each other when life has crept in between.
Gently, and a little at a time. What really opens the harder doors is what OurVow builds between you day by day — a couple who feel seen, appreciated, and safe — with each other and before God. When hearts are already open and the good is already spoken, the harder conversations feel less like confrontation and more like drawing closer.
Yes. Each of your answers stays private until you've both responded — then they open only to the two of you. It's a safe place to be honest.
Yes. Each day includes a verse, and every question is written to draw you toward God as you draw toward each other. OurVow is made to live inside a Christ-centered marriage.
Church and prayer are the foundation. OurVow lives in the space between them — the ordinary weekdays, when the closeness you build on Sunday can quietly fade. It's a daily way to keep tending your marriage and your walk with God, together, right when life is busiest.
Most tools are something you do on your own, or something you read and hope to apply later. OurVow is something the two of you do together, right away — a shared moment that turns you toward God and toward each other at once.
OurVow gives you something quieter than most apps: a safe, sacred space — a sanctuary — where the two of you turn toward God and toward each other. It's a ritual, not a feed, and that quiet daily return is what continuously draws you closer to each other and to God. And when your church gives it to you, it's yours as a gift — free.