30 Christian Marriage Questions to Ask Your Husband Tonight

Three groups. You only need a few. Start wherever the evening is.

What you love and notice

  1. 1.

    What do you love most about the home we're building for God?

  2. 2.

    What's something small I do that you'd miss if it stopped?

  3. 3.

    When do you feel most at home?

  4. 4.

    What made you laugh this week?

  5. 5.

    What would you want a slow Saturday with me to look like?

  6. 6.

    What do you think God gave you in me that you didn't know you needed?

  7. 7.

    What's a moment from this year you'd live again?

  8. 8.

    What are you most thankful to God for right now?

  9. 9.

    Where do you feel most yourself with me?

  10. 10.

    What are you quietly proud of that you'd never say out loud?

What you remember

  1. 11.

    What do you remember most clearly from our wedding day?

  2. 12.

    Which of the vows we made before God do you think about most?

  3. 13.

    What would you add to your vows if you said them again tonight?

  4. 14.

    Where have we been together that you'd go back to tomorrow?

  5. 15.

    What season of our marriage would you live again?

  6. 16.

    When did you first know?

  7. 17.

    What's something we used to do that you'd love to start again?

  8. 18.

    What's the funniest thing that's ever happened to us?

  9. 19.

    What has the Lord given us that we almost took for granted?

  10. 20.

    What's a kindness of mine you've never mentioned?

Where God is taking you

  1. 21.

    What has Jesus been teaching you lately?

  2. 22.

    What do you think Jesus is preparing you for?

  3. 23.

    Where do you see Jesus at work in me right now?

  4. 24.

    How do I help you draw closer to Christ?

  5. 25.

    What do you want the Lord to say about this home?

  6. 26.

    What do you want to ask God for, for the two of us, this year?

  7. 27.

    Where would you love us to go together in the next three years?

  8. 28.

    What do you want us to be doing five years from now?

  9. 29.

    What dream would you love to bring back to the Lord?

  10. 30.

    What would make you feel like we're walking with God in the same direction?