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6 Questions That Bring You Back Together After an Argument

Quoting Scripture at your spouse mid-argument is the fastest way to make the Bible feel like a weapon at home. These do the opposite.

  1. 1.

    What do you think I'm actually saying?

  2. 2.

    What do you need me to understand before I answer?

  3. 3.

    What would the peace Christ gives look like here, instead of winning?

  4. 4.

    What's one thing you love about me that this made you forget?

  5. 5.

    What do you need to hear from me right now?

  6. 6.

    Can we bring this to Jesus before either of us says more?